tag:gastricbypass.blog.co.uk,2009-11-21:/The journey before, during and after my Gastric Bypass surgery.MokoFeed2009-11-21T08:00:55+01:00tag:gastricbypass.blog.co.uk,2009-11-21:/2009/06/01/13-weeks-pregnant-and-still-shrinking-6215492/#c11561366Linda2009-11-21T00:10:07+01:002009-11-21T00:10:07+01:00This blog has been fascinating reading, I have just read it from start to finish and what an inspiration you are.....but please, if you get a minute can you update us? I would love to know how you are getting on and that you are ok, especially as its been 5 months since you last posted<br> Take care,<br> Lindatag:gastricbypass.blog.co.uk,2009-10-26:/2009/06/01/13-weeks-pregnant-and-still-shrinking-6215492/#c11312838Hjertecenter Varde2009-10-26T13:44:40+01:002009-10-26T13:44:40+01:00Good to hear that youre still losing weight, keep it falling of you!tag:gastricbypass.blog.co.uk,2009-05-27:/2009/05/03/update-on-baby-bean-6052084/#c10011671Cosmetic Guru2009-05-27T15:50:19+02:002009-05-27T15:50:19+02:00Best of luck in the future. Keep us updated on how things go!tag:gastricbypass.blog.co.uk,2009-05-06:/2009/05/03/update-on-baby-bean-6052084/#c9834406shelbell2009-05-06T14:21:25+02:002009-05-06T14:21:25+02:00Thanks Suzy, September will be here in no time!tag:gastricbypass.blog.co.uk,2009-05-06:/2009/05/03/update-on-baby-bean-6052084/#c9834179suzy2009-05-06T13:59:13+02:002009-05-06T13:59:13+02:00Congrats on being pregnant. : )<br> Do all you can to make sure that the baby and YOU get all the nutrition you need while you're pregnant. It'll make the little guy/girl's life better in the future. Hope you find some good food that won't make you sick. You got to do all you can to make sure you are healthy. : ) You want your precious little baby to be born as healthy as possible.<br> <br> I just came across your blogg... hope all is going well for you. I have also been approved to do GB surgery...now I just have to wait until Sept. : ) Still thinking at times that I should just hit the gym and start eating right... but it never lasts! : )<br> <br> Anyway... saw your before and after pix. WOW... can't believe how young you look. One photo could be your mom and the other ... the new you.<br> <br> Take care of yourself. Enjoy your new life. tag:gastricbypass.blog.co.uk,2009-05-03:/2009/04/19/9-month-update-issues-fixed-and-some-news-5970419/#c9809039Jay2009-05-03T19:38:15+02:002009-05-03T19:38:15+02:00You seem to be doing great Shell you are a sensible woman and have a keen sense of priorities so be strong get through the next few weeks and hopefully you will be home and dry<br> <br> My thoughts and prayers will be with you Shell tag:gastricbypass.blog.co.uk,2009-04-22:/2009/04/19/9-month-update-issues-fixed-and-some-news-5970419/#c9719667Sylvie2009-04-22T19:15:46+02:002009-04-22T19:15:46+02:00Congratulations!!! I am having a discussion with my Ob-GYN and my gastric bypass surgeon about pregnancy next week. I'd like to be pregnant NOW. Keep sharing and don't disappear. I haven't known you long but I was worried.tag:gastricbypass.blog.co.uk,2009-04-22:/2009/02/16/7-months-and-100lbs-5583936/#c9713940shelbell2009-04-22T07:53:16+02:002009-04-22T07:53:16+02:00Hi,<br> <br> The nerves are natural! You'd be strange if you didn't get them. I found the best thing was finding good support, which I still get now at www.minimins.com in the surgical weight loss section. Also, reading and researching so I was as prepared as possible. <br> <br> You'll be fine, and better still, you'll be slimmer and healthier!<br> <br> Shel tag:gastricbypass.blog.co.uk,2009-04-21:/2009/02/16/7-months-and-100lbs-5583936/#c9711606Jan2009-04-21T21:13:13+02:002009-04-21T21:13:13+02:00I am very new to all this. I have just had my appt. with the surgeon and funding is in place. I am now trying to loose a couple of stone befor my bypass takes place. somewhat aprehensive at the moment but you look so good in the picture so well done to you.any hints to stop the nerves from giving me such a hard time!tag:gastricbypass.blog.co.uk,2009-03-26:/2009/03/16/4th-day-of-issues-5768787/#c9484272Lucy Bartlett2009-03-26T07:48:56+01:002009-03-26T07:48:56+01:00This comment has been removed as I won't allow selling and promotion on my blog. tag:gastricbypass.blog.co.uk,2009-03-23:/2009/03/16/4th-day-of-issues-5768787/#c9455278Sylvie2009-03-23T12:54:55+01:002009-03-23T12:54:55+01:00hey Shel<br> <br> Been a while since you updated this and I was just wondering how you are doing. I've been there and let me tell you, you will get over it. Please confide in your husband. My husbad is my bigegst supporter and my bet friend. If I couldn't have vented to him throughout the process, I might have gone bonkers by now.<br> <br> Looking forward to hearing about your journey some more.tag:gastricbypass.blog.co.uk,2009-03-20:/2009/03/16/4th-day-of-issues-5768787/#c9436200hopelesscase2009-03-20T22:43:08+01:002009-03-20T22:43:08+01:00Hi shel only just managed to catch up with everything. really sorry to hear you are struggling to this degree. I know what you would be saying to others but equally know how difficult it is to heed yr own advise. How are you doing with liquids are you getting them in. do you have open assess to the psycologist would it be worth having a chat with her/him.<br> I wonder if this is because you are so close to target and yr subconsiouse is sort of saying hey what will you do once yr there and giving you a hard time because yr allowing it to. instead of saying hey this is where my life begins.<br> give me a bell if you want to talk. <br> anytime<br> take care<br> caroletag:gastricbypass.blog.co.uk,2009-03-19:/2009/03/16/4th-day-of-issues-5768787/#c9417785Nichole2009-03-19T02:32:17+01:002009-03-19T02:32:17+01:00oh, Shel, that is really terrible. You can't let food control you this way. You have to eat to sustain yourself, you don't have to enoy or even like it but please do eat. You have re-gained control over food since you had surgery, don't let it back in your head again. Please call me if you want to talk.tag:gastricbypass.blog.co.uk,2009-03-16:/2009/03/14/love-hate-relationship-with-food-5755295/#c9390877Sylvie2009-03-16T13:26:35+01:002009-03-16T13:26:35+01:00Been there, done that. In my head, I am still the obese person I was 2 years ago. Then, I look in the mirroror get complimented and am shocked. The loose skin definitely does not help at all - the skin on the tummy, the skin on my upper arms, the skin on the thighs ... where did all this damn skin come from? lol<br> <br> The hubby means well but doesn't always understand where I am coming from. It helped having a friend who went through the same surgery to be able to talk about some of these issues.tag:gastricbypass.blog.co.uk,2009-03-15:/2009/02/16/7-months-and-100lbs-5583936/#c9383253shelbell2009-03-15T17:26:11+01:002009-03-15T17:26:11+01:00Yes, it's listed in one of the early blog posts on here. They wanted me to do an 800cal one which I did for 3 days but didn't get on with. I swapped over to the milk diet which I found far easier. <br> <br> My PCT want you to have a BMI of 26, and they take into account the weight of the excess skin with this, so if your BMI is 27 but the skin would make it 26 then that's ok. tag:gastricbypass.blog.co.uk,2009-03-15:/2009/03/14/love-hate-relationship-with-food-5755295/#c9378885judybrowneyes2009-03-15T02:03:05+01:002009-03-15T02:03:05+01:00Hey Shellbell..... sounds like you going through a rough patch, when you think about it you have been through so many changes over a short period of time your hubby too getting used to the New You . it is important that you try to eat again i am sure hubby is worried about you... if you want to talk email me and we can arrange a time to talk it out if you would like ok hugz Jude xx tag:gastricbypass.blog.co.uk,2009-03-15:/2009/02/16/7-months-and-100lbs-5583936/#c9378875judybrowneyes2009-03-15T01:57:06+01:002009-03-15T01:57:06+01:00Aw Shellbell I can understand how you feel you have done so well and it must feel so frustrating having to wait to get the TT done....I guess the time will go quickly enough...its seems strange they expect you to be 25bmi when the excess skin must account for a couple of kilos..wish you luck honey i have been reading your blogs feel more prepared now do you remember what your liver shrinking diet was??tag:gastricbypass.blog.co.uk,2009-03-14:/2009/02/16/7-months-and-100lbs-5583936/#c9376719shelbell2009-03-14T20:43:00+01:002009-03-14T20:43:00+01:00Great news Judy :) <br> <br> I will definately be going for tt funding, but I have to wait it out yet. If I had the money I would have it done tomorrow! I hate how it looks and how it makes me feel. tag:gastricbypass.blog.co.uk,2009-03-14:/2009/02/16/7-months-and-100lbs-5583936/#c9376684judybrowneyes2009-03-14T20:38:56+01:002009-03-14T20:38:56+01:00Shellbell you are wonderful thanks for all your support and for sharing so much i got my op date btw 23 April whey hey !! soooo excited i have the pre op meeting with the nurses on march 23 so will find out i suppose what liver shrinking diet they will wan t me to do the surgeon has asked me to cut carbs small amounts of protein i,e 2 small chicken breasts and veggies some fruit and low fat diet yoghurt will i see them so i am being a good girl got to shrink that liver......how depressing it would be to find they put you out then do nothing cause your liver too big omg .. so Shell do you think you will got for a tt ?? hugz Jude tag:gastricbypass.blog.co.uk,2009-02-23:/2009/02/16/7-months-and-100lbs-5583936/#c9194894shelbell2009-02-23T18:56:55+01:002009-02-23T18:56:55+01:00Ooh blimey lots of questions lol, here goes :) <br> <br> Kitten, just keep your focus on the end result, shrinking that liver! Imagine getting out of surgery and being told that they haven't done anything as your liver was too big! Believe me it happens! I don't think any food is worth that risk. Drink plenty of fluids as it helps ease the headache you get in the first few days and the time will soon pass. <br> <br> Judy Judy Judy Judyyyyyyy Hia chuck :D You need to check with your car insurer, some say 2 weeks, most say once your surgeon has said you can. My insurer said it was up to my surgeon, and my surgeon said 2 weeks. I went back to work after 2 1/2 weeks and managed fine. I do have a sedentary job though and could have easily stayed off longer as I was tired still. I went on holiday 3 days post op lol. Not recommended! Only to Blackpool and I had lots of people there to look after me. I did Center Parks 4 weeks post op too and managed fine there. It depends on your eating, and how long your surgeon wants you to stay on each stage for. Once you're back on solids holidays should be no problem. Check your travel insurance clauses though as some of them will ask if you've had surgery in the last 6/12 months. You'll be a loser soon so use this time to prepare yourself, learn all there is to learn, and get your head in the right place.<br> <br> Thanks Sylvie, I feel so much better in myself and have so much more confidence! tag:gastricbypass.blog.co.uk,2009-02-23:/2009/02/16/7-months-and-100lbs-5583936/#c9192768Sylvie2009-02-23T15:33:00+01:002009-02-23T15:33:00+01:00Thanks Shell! Also wanted tos ay I can't see the pictures form work but it sounds like you are doing amazing. I am trying to reach my 100 lbs lost and it's a goal I am slogging towards. You will be my inspiration :-)tag:gastricbypass.blog.co.uk,2009-02-22:/2009/01/17/6-months-on-excess-skin-5394772/#c9183149judybrowneyes2009-02-22T14:46:05+01:002009-02-22T14:46:05+01:00Hi Jenni congrats on getting accepted for GBS on NHS me too!! have you had all your assessments yet or are you at the beginning of your journey??? where are you having it done??tag:gastricbypass.blog.co.uk,2009-02-22:/2009/02/16/7-months-and-100lbs-5583936/#c9182740judybrowneyes2009-02-22T14:06:32+01:002009-02-22T14:06:32+01:00omg Shell your blog is an inspiration thats an incredible journey looking at your after pic is just amazing like another women!! can i ask you as question how long after surgery could you say drive?? go back to work?? go on holiday etc. not sure when i will have my op on nhs had all the assessments so now waiting to find out what happens next...all the assessments have said yes she needs the op lol....so now just cant wait to become a looser so tired of trying to loose weight and all the disappointment that goes with it loose gain cycle... keep up the good work Shall will check on your blog again to keep me going.... Judetag:gastricbypass.blog.co.uk,2009-02-20:/2009/02/16/7-months-and-100lbs-5583936/#c9164555kitten2009-02-20T11:50:39+01:002009-02-20T11:50:39+01:00wow! i have just read all your blog and cant bel;ieve you have done so well!! i start my 2 weeks diet tomorrow and wanted to know how you managed?? any tips would be gr8!! also i have started writing letters and stuff to family and friends, my mind has been working overtime and i have really struggled sleeping too... but if i look as good as you at the end it will all be worth it!!!tag:gastricbypass.blog.co.uk,2009-02-19:/2009/02/16/7-months-and-100lbs-5583936/#c9159938shelbell2009-02-19T21:45:09+01:002009-02-19T21:45:09+01:00No problems Sylvie :) I tend to reply to comments by email so had already done that. <br> <br> In case anyone else is concerned about hair loss, here's my reply - <br> <br> I have had some hair thinning, it started at around <br> 3months post op. To be honest it's never been a huge problem, as my hair was very thick to start with. I started taking selenium and zinc and it's thickening up again now.<br> <br> You will get thinning with any rapid weight loss, but it is only temporary (up to 6 months) and never looks as bad as the sufferer thinks! In my eyes it's a small price to pay for all the benefits.<br> <br> Have a look at http://www.minimins.com/surgical-weight-loss/ there are lots of band and bypass diaries on there were you can get a real insight into both.<br> <br> Hope that helps,<br> tag:gastricbypass.blog.co.uk,2009-02-19:/2009/02/16/7-months-and-100lbs-5583936/#c9159373Sylvie2009-02-19T20:52:35+01:002009-02-19T20:52:35+01:00sharon, (shelbell, I apologize for jumping in), I had my Gastric Bypass in October of 2007 and I haven't had any hair loss. My ffiend who had the surgery a yr before me had severe hair loss because she fell behind on her protein intake. As soon as she got that back up, all her hair came back too.tag:gastricbypass.blog.co.uk,2009-02-17:/2009/02/16/7-months-and-100lbs-5583936/#c9140114sharon2009-02-17T22:51:31+01:002009-02-17T22:51:31+01:00hi shelbel im waiting for surgery ,im just on my second appointment ,i need to make up my mind which surgery do i want ,gasro bypass or band !i would like the bypass but im scared of loseing my hair,my hair is long and i have alot of it.did you have alot of hair lost,did it notice!!!!i think your blogs are great,you make me feel happy about the whole thing.xtag:gastricbypass.blog.co.uk,2009-02-16:/2009/02/16/7-months-and-100lbs-5583936/#c9125040strawberry twig2009-02-16T16:03:23+01:002009-02-16T16:03:23+01:00What an inspiration you are. x x Well done and thank you for showing me there is a light at the end of the tunnel.xtag:gastricbypass.blog.co.uk,2009-02-14:/2009/01/17/6-months-on-excess-skin-5394772/#c9109258Dell2009-02-14T20:15:11+01:002009-02-14T20:15:11+01:00Hi<br> I am Dell on Minimins and came to this to read a bit more and you are such an inspiration to me :o) Just awnted to say well done, you are so brave! I can imagine me having all the emotions you have had and more but the end result is in sight for you already and that spurs me on SO much.<br> xxtag:gastricbypass.blog.co.uk,2009-02-13:/2008/06/15/the-beginning-4319130/#c9102435Rozzi2009-02-13T23:22:42+01:002009-02-13T23:22:42+01:00Shelbell did your GP recommend you seeing a dietician first "for a few weeks"? He told me that if I do that and lose weight I can probably have the surgery "a few weeks later". Im not sure exactly when I will be able to have the operation and its making me so nervous!!! Do I prepare for a few months? A few weeks?